I could never have come through all of this with a Christian counselor. Dealing with trauma, emotional things, marital problems, etc while going through deconstruction simply cannot be handled by someone who is committed to first and foremostly “saving lost sheep.” You are not a project. You are not a salvation target. You are a person and you need to be heard and taught how to walk through your own life.
Row, row, row your boat, gently down the stream Merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream Row, row, row your boat, gently down the stream Merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream… Around and around they go, songs in a round, much like life. Except life isn’t always “but a dream”. This is […]
“All you care about is yourself.” “This must be your midlife crisis.” These two statements couldn’t be further from the truth. When you’re 47 and you’ve had a drastic mind-shift, people don’t know how to take it. Some call it a midlife crisis. Others may think you’re just being selfish. Or that you’re “losing it.” […]
This is a blog re-launch, of sorts. I’m re-branding a bit and introducing myself to you once again. Tired of playing by the blogging rules, struggling to find things to write about, and trying to fit in when I’m truly just a square peg on a round pegboard, I give up. I know I’m not […]